Everyone lies

But disguise of every sort is my abhorrence - Jane Austen

I have learnt of several hypocrisies of late. To know that some of them are my friends only reaffirms my belief:

everyone lies.

Why do they masquerade?

There is no privacy that cannot be penetrated,
No secret can be kept in the civilised world.
Society is a masked ball where everyone hides his real character,
then reveals it by hiding. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

The charade is over. I understand now.

I may be too honest, even harsh. But I can relish in the fact that I did not lie. Nor evade nor embellish. Nor colour. Nor hide.

Keep it real. Tell it like it is.

I apologise for the lack of dirty details. For even now, I am nice enough to play along with your masquerades.

Comments

NikeSweet said…
yeah.. true.. everyone lies.. everyone is also a hypocrite in their own way.. its just to whom and who they did it to..

say if ur fren is lying to u.. surely u wld noe.. cause u've been frens with them for so long.. but its the "new" ppl that we have yet to know if wat they say are true...
Hana said…
i think i lie a lot, even though i wish i never had to in the first place. sad but true. hope everything is alright with you... sometimes, to lie is merely a prevention; either for the positive or negative, its totally individual. then again, lies hurt the most when it comes from someone (or people) who matters a whole lot to you. the rest are simply insignificant. (i hope i make sense :)
zarawil said…
non: true...but i think as i grow older, i try not to lie as much as possible or hide even to strangers. which costs me sometimes because i'm too honest

hana: thanks babe i'm ok. just that i dunno why i'm shocked when i discover people's true colours. i guess there's a small part of me that refuses to be cynical. people surprise me all the time. and when its friends, you kinda of wonder do you really know them.
Hana said…
when we're lying, we can hurt. yet when we're being honest, we can hurt just as much. well, we learn... that's the beauty of it :)
Hana said…
hahaha! sorry! i've to comment again! just noticed u've got blogpatrol here as well. cool.cool. join the club Missy :-D
zarawil said…
its pretty cool actually the blogpatrol....i saw it on your site and decided to get it. it can actually track down the IP addresses that access the site....it seems that a lot of my visitors visit at 2am in the morning (!!!??) and use mac computers (??).
NikeSweet said…
dont forget tat its according to US time zone.. not ours.. here in SIN or there in MELB.. so yeah.. go figure the exact time then!! haha..
Ryu Arashi said…
i agree wif helldove's lying n hurt thingy. wen issit right to tell the truth n wen issit not? both doors conceal their results to open it to us only after we've chosen wic to open. but how do we noe wic decision to choose?

personally, for smn who told the truth, i'm proud of being honest although it meant losing smn. ;p